When You Lose the Sun

When you lose the sun, only will you realize how much you need its warmth… The type of warmth that surrounds your entire body all at once. The warmth that keeps your nerves pumping and thrivi…

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When You Lose the Sun

When you lose the sun, only will you realize how much you need its warmth… The type of warmth that surrounds your entire body all at once. The warmth that keeps your nerves pumping and thriving to jump. The warmth that makes you feel so much alive.

When you lose the sun, only will you fathom how much you yearn for its light. The kind of light that gives you strength to keep moving forward. The light that keeps you walking straight to the right path. The light that captivates you and lures you to find all the beautiful treasures this world holds.

When you lose the sun, only will you make sense of  how much you’ve taken its presence for granted. How you’ve always complained that it was too relentless in making sure your day was well lit and joyful. How you’ve never taken the time to admire the splendor that everyday filled your eyes.

Quite a few times, you’ve seen your sun start to lose its light, you’ve felt the warmth slowly changing with each gush of the wind, you’ve watched the world slightly going dim with every passing day.

One day, you awoke and felt like something had gone wrong. You felt the urge to go out and see what has changed. Yet everything was all the same…the kids from next door were still laughing and playing by the porch. The old man man from across the street was still tuning out his trombone.

Everyone else felt the same except you. Then you find a note on your bedside table. It read: “Always keep the light and the warmth of my love in your heart. ‘Til we meet some day…”

…You had lost your Sun.

To my World,

 

From your Sun

Live Each Moment

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Life is short, as they say

So don't let each chance slip away

Live each moment as if it was your last

Just look ahead and don't think about the past

Storms may come so just hold tight

The sun will arise and shine so bright

'Cause our lives go on this way

Just strengthen your faith and with God you'll stay

Time will come that you'll set sail

To seas of mysteries you'll prevail

Just keep your strength and hold on

Live each moment as it goes on

Soliloquy huh?

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Soliloquy is a term used when one is having a conversation with himself or herself out loud. The question here though is; can soliloquizing be an indefinite sign of insanity?

Well, according to psychologist, Dr. Linda Sapadin; talking to yourself is not a symptom of insanity but rather a stress-reliever that can help you not only take load off your mind but can also make you smarter.

Yes, folks! You read it right, TALKING TO YOURSELF MAKES YOU SMARTER. It actually improves your cognitive skills and also helps lighten emotional load (only if you talk to yourself right). Let me justify these claims below…

Improve cognitive skills. First off, as we all remember from our psychology classes, that the cognitive processes of our brains include; memory, perception and thinking.  A research study conducted by Gary Lupyan and Daniel Swingley, after going through multiple experiments (conveyed in different locations and situations) resulted to the conclusion that when people talk to themselves while looking for something they need or might have misplaced find it evidently quicker than of those who don’t.

Lighten emotional load. According to Dr. Linda Sapadin, soliloquizing relieves lonliness and boost self-confidence. Speaking to oneself helps one clarify their thoughts, tend to know what’s important and firm up any decisions they’re contemplating.

Here are four types of self-talk Dr. Sapadin claims that will make you smarter and feel better about yourself:

1. Complimentary. Never ever deny yourself the little compliments you deserve. Even for the littlest things you have done, always give yourself a pat on the back. A simple “you did good today” or “that was an excellent thing you did earlier” will always count. Don’t wait for other people’s compliments, they often times seem to see things a teeny-bit foggy and sometimes their attention might not be fully pointed to you. So, never hesitate to give yourself that five star stamp for a job well done.
2. Motivational. Not sure you want to get up and head out to school or to work? Motivating yourself with a kinder and more soft spoken way can give you a better drive on things. Remember the times when your friends or certain members of the family talk you up and motivate you to do something? Don’t they often times mistake the situation and pep-talk you on out-of-context things? Always motivate yourself because no one else knows you better than you, right?
3. Outer dialogue. Having trouble with making a decision? Should you stay or should you go? Speak up or stay silent? Buy this gift or that gift? Choices aren’t easy. Indeed, because they’re so difficult, we often don’t really make a choice; we respond impulsively from habit or anxiety. It’s much more effective, however, to create a dialogue with yourself so that you can hear what you think.
4. Goal-setting. Let’s say you’re trying to be better organized so the holidays are not so frenzied. Setting a goal and making a plan (i.e. what to do, when to do it, how to do it) can be a big help. Sure, you can just make a list, but saying it out loud focuses your attention, reinforces the message, controls your runaway emotions and screens out distractions. Top athletes do this all the time by telling themselves to “keep your head down. Keep your eye on the ball. Breathe.” It works well for them, why not for you.

Contented? So next time you seem to have lost something or need a little kick in the butt, never stop yourself from mumbling about on your own. Talk! It’ll make you a whole lot wiser and focused. 🙂

Sources:

psychcentral.com

gizmodo.com

241543903; THE STORY BEHIND THE CRAZE

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For those of you who are not aware, 241543903 is a trending meme that involves taking a photo of yourself with your head inside the freezer. You could actually google that right now and discover photos of random people sticking their heads inside the freezer! Insane right? But how did this all start?

The head-inside-the-freezer craze has been going on for a while. According to an article written by Jay Hathaway of urlesque.com, this phenomena that started in 2009 at the social networking site Tumblr, was actually the doing of David Horvitz, an artist known for (aside from the 241543903 craze) starting a subscription to his daily photos of the sky. At that time, Horvitz was running a Tumblr page where he posted random, but insanely hilarious (sometimes tremendously self reflective) instructions to his followers everyday. How random you may ask? Here are several examples:

Taking a photo with your head inside a freezer and tagging it with an ostensibly random number “241543903” was one of these instructions. Horvitz apparently got the idea after telling a sick friend to try sticking her head inside the freezer. The number 241543903 Horvitz picked was a combination of the serial number of his refrigerator and the barcodes on a bag of edamame and a package of frozen soba noodles he was keeping there.

This was the first uploaded photo of 241543903

The trend started early in 2009 and until now, is still considered one of the most bizarre meme trends to ever hit the internet. Here are a few more examples of far-out trends induced by artist David Horvitz:

PS: Try googling them 😉

A Wish Upon A Falling Star

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I wished upon a falling star

I willed it so, that it heard me from afar

I wished my wish was the wish it gleamed among all wishes

I wished my wish was the one wish it chooses

I wished upon a falling star tonight

I wished a wish and endeared with all my might

I wished a wish to set me free

I wished a wish to make us happy

Though a wish is just a wish

Could my wish, just this once, be "the" wish?

The wish that the star glared upon in frazzle

The wish that the star worked in hassle

I wish my wish to come true

I willed with all my strength for it to

"Your wish, I heard", the star say

"Though I'm sorry dear miss, the wind blew it away..."

How my heart broke when the star revealed my misfortune

My most wished wish burnt out like cotton

My most wished wish of all wishes the wind had to take

My most wished wish of all wishes the wind had to break

I wished upon a falling star

I wished a wish that did not go so  far

I wish now that fate will take its tole

I wish that wish would soon play its role

My wish; I shan't ever reveal

My wish; I shan't ever unveil

Though I may divulge my wish was "the" wish, I know

For all must have wished the wish I wished, somehow...

-Richelle B. Conanan